Someone once forwarded an image to me that says “African boyfriends are like African Presidents, the next one is worse than the previous one”. I replied by saying African Girlfriends are like African electorate, they don’t learn from their mistake so they end up repeating the same mistakes. They end up going for someone who is worse than their Ex.
As a matter of fact, it is not only the men who don’t learn from their mistakes, the women are with the same bad habit. It makes no sense for any woman to hold on to a man who impregnated her because she already has one child from a previous relationship which didn’t lead to marriage.
Common sense will tell you when you have sex with someone you are not married to and get pregnant, just by virtue of your pregnancy does NOT make you a married couple. The requirement for getting married is not pregnancy. For those who are still doing that, pregnancy is not bride price and knocking ceremony is not a marriage ceremony or wedding.