A Marriage Counsellor, Lady Reverend Dr. Charlotte Oduro has advised ladies to desist from chasing rich married men because they will end up becoming side chicks forever and not wives.
She said these rich married men just enjoy company with young girls but will never leave their wives to marry them.
According to her, the rich married men will give them all the monies the girlfriends need and waste their time because they already have families.
The Marriage Counsellor wondered why some girls just want to be baby Mamas to rich men just to acquire a house, a car and travels when their wives have all the plenty cars and houses at their disposal.
She described girls who yearn to be baby Mama’s to some rich men as ‘cheap’ advising them to get boyfriends with vision and build future with them.
Speaking on Hitz FM monitored by MyNewsGh.com, she said , ‘Stop chasing married men who are rich, they go use you as side chicks, take you to Dubai, buy you the car, but the woman at home, you can never be her, the men will tell you I want a young girl he’s just wasting your time, his wife and children are home, they are there.
The young girls will say I want to be the baby Mama, he has houses and he gave you one and you are content, and you are flaunting it around that you are the baby Mama, you are being cheap excuse me to use the word, because there is another women at home who is owning everything, why don’t you get your own guy and build a future with the guy, and own whatever you want to own’.
The outspoken relationship coach further advised girls to build something for themselves and stop dreaming of being with men who have cars adding that it will be difficult for men to bluff girls if they know what they are worth.
She urged girls to support their poor boyfriends who have a vision of going into businesses.
‘Please women should stop going for, I want the man who has money, go for a guy who has brains and is not lazy, a guy who is smoking and drinking, a guy who is enjoying his father’s money and two years to come the guy has nothing, but there are guys from poor homes, they have brains, they are working, they are praying, they have vision, they are working it out. You are beautiful, educated help them.
I want a guy who has a jeep, today jeep will be an old one tomorrow. Now they are doing Iphone 8 and what have you, every time things change, build yourself and stop being choosy, ladies who go for the stars, they will sleep with you and leave you. If you want fame create your own fame, somebody’s son is a star today, can’t the man celebrate you,’ she advised in the interview with Hitz FM monitored by MyNewsGh.com.